Archive for April, 2012
Phone dating services have taken the world by storm. With the invention of mobile phones, the popularity of these dating companies has vastly grown over a few years. If you search the web, you can see mobile phone companies that offer this type of service, not only in the US but also in other parts of the world like Europe, Australia and as far as Asia. While more people have relied on these services for their dating needs, some skeptics ask: do they really work?
These dating services are provided by mobile phone companies. A user is first made to register using a chat name. Then he makes his own profile. Your profile is then sent to a database which any registered member can access. By sending some keywords to a number, the mobile phone company sends you a list of names that fall within the criterion that you want. You can then send messages to these chat names, although you do not know their mobile numbers yet. After a few exchanges, you may want to give your mobile number and decide to meet in person. These dealings are now outside the scope of the services that the phone company provides.
Telephone dating services have come a long way since its introduction a decade ago. Back then, you’d see their ads on TV or the yellow pages, indicating the number to call. You will then call and leave a phone message. Others whom you may be interested with are going to listen to your message by dialing the same voice mailbox. If interested, he or she would also leave a message for you to retrieve. This is so much like an email correspondence, except that you get to hear the voice this time. After a couple of exchanges, you will then decide if you’re going to meet and actually date.
This has led to the development of video dating services, where video messages are made instead of ordinary phone messages. Through this, you are able to see the person instead of just hearing the voice.
Phone dating is actually different from phone sex companies. For the latter, you’d be asked to dial a certain 1-900 number, and female operators are on standby to give you a good time by engaging in some sexy conversation. Here, there is no actual dating involved.
Because of the popularity of these dating services, you can now start your own phone dating company by buying the software and some equipment at a low cost. But before you join any of these companies, know your options well. Look for companies which have been tried and proven to provide quality service.
Things may come and go, but phone dating services are sure to stay. It is a convenient and fast way to meet new people. But these services can only go as far as searching for somebody who might be fit for you. If you decide to move your relationship to the next level, then you have to work on it. Or it could be that you click really well in so far as phone conversations or texting, but not in real life. In other words, phone dating can be a great way to start. But if you want a lasting relationship with someone, you would have to meet and be with each other in the real world.
1. Hire a Mariachi Band or Local Acapella Group to Serenade Her
Unless she truly hates you, this will surely put a smile on her face and have her inviting you back into her comfort zone again.
Be sure to pick a humorous or joyful song; go for a sense of fun, not desperation.
2. Pay a Homeless Guy $5 to Hold Up a Sign for Her
If you live in a major metropolitan area, chances are you and your girlfriend regularly walk by homeless people.
They would love to have $1, let alone $5. Find a homeless person along the route she usually walks on her way to work.
Come up with a witty sign, like “Angela, John Would Like to Apologize for Going to Poker Night Instead of Visiting with You and Your Family. Will you Forgive him? – From John”
Or whatever — be sure to be creative and witty. I guarantee she will get a kick out of this. You might have to show the homeless guy a picture of her so he knows he needs to get her attention, but having her name on the sign should do the trick.
3. Propose Marriage to Her at a Baseball Game
This one only works if she will go with you to a sporting event. During 7th inning stretch, half-time or throughout the event, they will often post announcements up on the big screen displays throughout the stadium.
Before the game, visit the gaming office where you can tell them to make these announcements, and say that you’d like to make on for a wedding proposal. (or perhaps just to say hi, if she wouldn’t react nicely to a full-on practical joke like this!)
Be sure to keep an eye on the big screen throughout the game, so as not to miss the announcement.
4. Write Your Message in the Sky
We’ve all seen this in the movies, but how many people actually have the guts to go through with it in real life?
For as little as $100, you can hire an airplane to fly a message to your girlfriend across the sky.
Seduction is the most exciting thing in a relationship. It isn’t bad or wrong, it’s absolutely necessarily. The power of seduction is a gift. But not all of us have it, so we have to learn how to seduce the woman we want. Seduction can mean a couple of different things: it is a method that lets men have more success with women on a regular, repeatable basis and also it is a process by which one person leads another to the beginning of a sexual relationship.
Choose very well your target. Maybe it is there a beautiful sexy lady after you look anytime you see her on the street, but you never think that you will have a chance with her. Why don’t you try to seduce her, maybe you’ll win. But before you start, you must know that there are a few steps in seducing a woman:
- you have to be ready so get over your past rejection, overcome your shyness and clear your mind and think about what about you are going to talk with her
- interrupt her and get her attention next time when you see her; initiate with women, it takes guts to ask her out, ask her phone number
-create a conversational connection with her and show that you are able to understand her, make her sees you as romantic partner; lots of women love this
Considering that you get your first date with her, here are some tips for seduction that might help you:
-first of all, train your mind and focus on your goal, and remember that your goal is to get that woman; so you must know which are the mistakes from the past, and not make them again
-choose the perfect place for effective seduction, a place with a comfortable atmosphere, avoid places too bright lights or too dull ambiance
-eliminate every possible obstacle; convince yourself from the beginning that you can seduce her, even if you never did this before
-be yourself, show that you are well groomed and watch out about the basis hygiene; no women like a man with dirty clothes, or with a smell breath
-relax and smile as often as you can but be controlled; you just have to please her
-eyes contact it is very important when seducing; eyes are capable of showing your deepest emotions but watch out to not stare at her
-let her know that you are interested; women like to make them feel good about themselves
-the first impression usually last: show her that you are not interested only for sex
-have the right attitude – fearless and not arrogant, convince her that you are confident in your own skin
-do not shutter or look nervous, a confident person has much more chance of seducing
-have self confidence, sense of humor and self control
-show her that you are a gentleman; not many men from our days are; treat her like a princess, respect her for what she is and compliment her
-do not touch her in an offensive way; touch her slightly on her hands and even shoulders and you will see what’s next
-tease her; a woman will be attracted to men who tease and challenge her; teasing raises frustration which starts her attraction; if you are wanted by other women, you will command her respect and attraction
-be creative; you may buy her a nice gift and be genuine when you give it to her
-learn to dance; nothing turns on a person more than dancing, as you can get intimidate with each other without feeling awkward
-prepare your conversation; indulge a conversation that interest her too; women like intellectual conversations; talking will break the ice and seduction becomes more easier since the woman is comfortable; best way to start a conversation is with a genuine compliment
Women are attracted to specific, confident traits in men and your behavior demonstrates them. So start watching what women actually respond to, not what they say they want.